Losin my V-Card (Through Tim’s Mentorship coaching)

Before I spill the beans  I’ll first give a bit of info about me and where I’m coming from.

(this is the 3rd part of my interactions with an Indonesian girl)

My name is John and before last Friday, I was a 21 y/o virgin….
I’m your typical Asian guy who lived most of his life in a foreign western country, where odds are stacked up against me.
When I was a kid I was probably the most uncool guy EVER: I had the bowl haircut, pants like urkle and the social intelligence of an……asian guy in a foreign country 

I was an introvert, I’d rather listen to my music and not talk to anyone or maybe just my small group of friends, it was so bad that I didn’t even want to come in through the front gate of my school, because everyone saw everyone, and I felt really uncomfortable with just the thought of walking alone and being seen by my fellow students walking in through the front gate.
When I was a teenager I had a good friend who always got the girls, I was always surprised how he got the girls even when he acted like a total ASS, I knew he was good looking but I though hey there has got to be more than that…okay maybe I was also a bit jealous too.
Most of us got into this because there was always ONE (or two) girls who got away or broke your heart…or both.
In my case it was the combination of my then-best friend and crush going out together, I got so pissed off at him that I didn’t speak to him for almost a year (and I used to live next door to this guy), but deep down inside I was more pissed off at myself that I couldn’t get the girl and I knew it was my fault that I couldn’t attract anybody. That is when I decided to better myself, I learned how to become more social, I started working out, doing things I thought was fun like playing guitar, bodyboarding (surfing), dressing better. Basically I worked on my self confidence, but there was still something missing, I still couldn’t get the girls. I’d have lots of friends who where girls… but no girl friends.
About 3-4 years ago I stumbled on the pick up community. Fast forward to September 21st 2009, I decided it was time to be proactive and stop reading about pick up and actually do it. I first came into contact with Tim through mutual friends in Europe,  it didn’t take him long to convince me to sign up for his Online Mentorship Program (through Skype). In the beginning I could not imagine losing my virginity only in two months under Tim’s tutelage….and on through just Skype coaching too!

Here is how it all went down:

We agreed that she’ll come over Saturday night, I didn’t expect her to text message me saying “hmm Can we just switch our Saturday to tonight… I can’t wait till 2morrow  Only if you don’t mind”. I was at the gym when I read it so I sent her txt msg saying “I’m gonna be home around 7, you can come over then”

She came over around 7.30 the moment I opened the door I knew what was on her mind….she wanted SEX!
We sat on the couch and talked for a bit …then she stood up and said “lets go to your bed..I really like your bedsheets, it’s soooo comfy” (Thanks again Tim for your tip about making my room comfy)
She flops on the bed and I lay beside her and in no time we where making out HEAVILY. She tells me to take my shirt off, I told her that she should do it. She starts unbuttoning my shirt and starts kissing me on my chest. I lay her down on the bed and start making out with her again now with me caressing the sides of her breast with my knee between her crotch and I start rubbing her down there. By this time she was getting really worked up, she suddenly pushes me away and told me to take my pants off.. I tell her.. only if you do so, she said…”trust me”. Now I don’t know about you guys but when a girl wants you to take your pants off and says “trust me”….good things are bound to happen 
When I finally got my pants off she starts kissing me from top to …..down there.. All I can say is that she knows how to use her tongue 
When I was almost there I pushed her away and went down on her, at first she tried to push me away so I kissed her everywhere but her sweet spot, she got so worked up that she didn’t even resist when I finally got to her money spot. I got fed up with her panties getting in the way so I told her to take it off.
When I was about to put on the condom, she looked at me and said “what is that?” …..in my head I was like “WTF?!!!”, but I kept it cool and told her “it’s too early to make lil jon’s that’s why I need to use this. So I put it on and was about to enter her when she stopped me and said…”but you can pull out before it happens right?” I was going to explain to her some Biology stuff when I realized that it might just kill the mood…so I took the condom off and start making out with her again and basically make her want it. After about 15 minutes she was really worked up, I thought “now is my chance to put on a new condom”, so I reach out to grab the condom under my bed but to my (unpleasant) surprise it WASN’T THERE! I heard her say “put it in” but I told her “I can’t…not without a condom”, I was about to call it off when she said, ok well put one on, I told her “give me a min…I looked under my bed and voila! there it is…. I slipped it on and I was ready to go …but…I knew I had to get her worked up again.. so back to making out and foreplay, this time it didn’t take long for her to get into it.
I was a bit nervous that I’d fumble so I told her to put it in…
And the rest is history.

Looking back at this, I’m glad that my first time wasn’t with a prostitute or, drunk girl from a club or some ugly and fat chick 
As I write this I know this is only the beginning and that there is more to come and more adventure awaits us nstantattraction practitioners.