Superbowl Event Review:

Hey guys, I’ve been so busy doing workshops so I apologize for not posting. This month has been insane, New York first week, New Orleans week after, I just came back from snowboarding in Tahoe and now I’m heading out to Amsterdam. I promise next month will have more updates.. in the mean time, here is a review of a workshop in Dallas w/ a recent student of mine. Aka *ForbiddenFruit*

BACKGROUND

Before I begin this review, I’m going to give you guys a bit of background of who I am and where I’m coming from. I grew up as the quiet, shy, and introverted sibling. I grew up in a strict household where education and good virtues were everything. I had literally zero experience interacting with women until late in junior high. Like every adolescent, I had really bad crushes, except I was scared to death to talk to girls. I still remember during the junior high dances that I would always feel all jealous & sad seeing Mr. Popular slowdancing with Ms. Popular. Also in an effort to impress, I started learning how to break-dance, so I could show off in the school dance circles. This inbalanced and misguided type of thinking is how I dictated my life all the way till getting my Bachelor’s degree. I interacted with girls on a sparingly basis during this period. I became your definition of Mr. Nice Guy.

I studied material from an array of sources from PUA “gurus” and self-help books including David Deangelo, Mystery, Pickup101. I tried applying the stuff I studied on my own and “sarged” with local PUA wings. It never worked out the way I expected it. I went through different “phases” of shitty game:

- The asshole who acted excessively cocky which came off as very try-hard and incongruent
- The guy who thought “negging” meant insulting women for unwarranted reasons
- The guy who came off as fruity in an effort to be “playful direct”

While all this was going on, I couldn’t even carry a normal conversation with strange women. I had scripts in my head. I was NOT in the moment. I was a robot spitting out things that I have “studied.” Once I ran out of “material”, I would stall-out and have literally NOTHING to say.

HOW I FIRST LEARNED ABOUT TIMMY

I was a lurker for the most part on a Forum. I needed friends and a social-life, so I started asking for advice on a  forum. Timmy responded with awesome advice. I applied what he told me to do and saw instant results through my efforts and application.

I started to realize how much I underestimated Timmy. His advice was SPOT-ON for the problems I was posting about at the time. (Do a search for my threads on the CA forum and see for yourself.) I got interested, and took Timmy up for a free consultation call.

THE INVESTMENT FOR MY LIFE

During the consultation with Timmy, I immediately appreciated his no-nonsense attitude. He had recently left Charisma Arts to run his own show, and he offered me three of his programs:

- Skype/Phone Coaching

- Private Instruction Weekend

- Full package with both

HOW I GOT PREPARED

I prepared for my private instruction weekend through phone coaching with Timmy and doing the homework he assigned to me. You can see most of my efforts here at this thread:

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FRIDAY

Timmy assigned me my goal for Friday evening: FUN and LEADING (conversationally and physically)

It was an anti-valentines day party, and you were supposed to bring a picture of your ex. Then you would place a picture of that ex on the “wall of shame” where you would proceed to throw darts at it. The facebook confirmed list showed plenty of hot ladies.

I noticed over my shoulder that there was this tall brunette standing alone. I felt the vibe that she was hovering. I immediately went for it.

Me: Hey, how’s your night coming along?

Her: Gooooood

Me: You wanna know something! I looooove this city. Everyone has been so niiiiiceeee to me! Where I’m from, when you go out to make some new friends, and say hi….they give you this look and say ‘wat do you want’ (already grazing her upper arm with my hand)

Her: (smiling) Where are you from???

Me: I’m coming all the way from California!

Her: Ohhhh which part??

Me: [city name]

Her: Ohhhh yeahhhh…so what you doing here???

I tell her how I’m visiting Timmy, etc. I’m already rubbing the middle of her back while leaning in to hear her speak. Thank goodness for the loud music. I remembered to gather logistics immediately.

Me: So what brings you out tonight???

Her: I’m here because it’s my friend’s birthday!

Me: Oohhh cool…WHERE are your friends?

She points out the birthday girl. I could see birthday girl looking over at us anxiously. It was an impending cockblock. I think this is when I see Timmy approach the birthday girl. LOL! Timmy swooped in like a hawk.

So we started having basic info exchange about each other. I had to ask one more logistical question.

I sensed her body language shifting into high gear at this point. She’s standing closer into me. She doesn’t mind that our legs are rubbing against each other. my kino has been on the whole time. I look at her neck and notice a necklace. I wanted to escalate the kino further. Taking advice from earlier in the weekend that Timmy had gave me, I go for the necklace.

Me: Oooh cool lemme see your necklace *reach for it*

While holding the necklace in my hand, I gently stroked the bottom of her neckline with the back of my fingers.

Me: What’s it say??? Ohhh….just Tiffany and Co….hahah..

Finally I notice her birthday friend was on the loose. She was coming up towards us. I immediately walked TO HER for a preemptive strike.

ME: Heyyyyyy!!! You must be the birthday girl!!!

Bdaygirl: *wasn’t expecting me to do that* :/ (a bit unsure of me still)

Me: what’s your name????

Bdaygirl: [name]

Me: Happy birthday [name]!!!! *arms wide open for hug*

We hug.

Me: You know what [name], your friend here is sooooo coool!

Birthday girl gives me another once over, and looks at her friend. And then she smiles, and wanders off to her other friends. That was a close one. She was neutralized.

So I resumed talking to the brunette. We’re up against the bar counter. When she went to say something, this time I leaned all the way very close to her face.

Me: *Turning my head to sniff her hair and neck* OMG…..*sniff*….that smells soooo good…..what is that??

Her: *with the doggy dinner bowl look* …….

Me: Here check mine out

I lifted my chin up and tilted my head to the side to expose my jugular. With one hand already wrapped around her back, I used the free hand to direct her head to my neck to let her smell. Booom! I pulled Timmy’s signature “Vampire Move.”

After that she had the sex face. IT WAS ON. I gave her my sex face. And then it happened, we started making out in the middle of the room right at the bar counter.

Timmy was walking by after we had our first makeout session.

And then I lead her physically to a different spot. I wasn’t done yet, and I was about to go to town on her face. I walked her over to a wall. I assumed the “lock-in” position. I propped myself up against the wall, and then I pulled her in. We sucked each other’s faces dry and had some awesome tongue action. I could hear hooting and hollering in the background. Timmy snapped a photo of us at this magical moment.

When we were done making out, I knew she was worried about her friends. So I volunteered to handle this concern first before she would even mention it.

Me: Hey let’s go look for YOUR friends

Her: Okay

I was leading her around. We spot her friends. I gave her a compliment, and I followed it with a bounce proposition. I learned this from Timmy’s phone coaching. My proposition was as follows

Me: Ohhh you should really come over to check out my alcohol collection! (actually it was Timmy’s collection which he brought to our hotel room)

Her: Ohh what kind of alcohol???

Me: EVErrrrything’s there….vodka…crown royal…hypnotik…you name it!

Her: I’d love to come.

Me: Let’s get out of here!

Her: (hesitating) but i can’t! i promised [birthday girl] that I’d go home with her and sleep over

Me: Wow….i really like that you’re a loyal friend…..go let her know what’s up!

I wanted her to handle the logistics obstacle on her own. She went to her friend. Timmy comes up to me and tells me that I gotta BOUNCE HER NOW. I tell him about the logistical problem. She comes back after some time and we have the same exact discussion. We exchange numbers. I couldn’t keep pushing her with the same sales pitch. Timmy and I meet outside for a talk. I let him know about the logistical problem. Timmy is giving me major props for how far I took the interaction thus far. This was a magical moment.

I had already decided that it was going to be impossible to bounce her. At this point, I’m still dazed and happy about the makeout.

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When all the venues started closing, we all headed outside. Now I spotted two indian guys trying to bounce the brunette girl. She didn’t seem very convinced.

Me: Timmy!!! Look!! It’s her! What do I do now????

Timmy told me that I just needed to get in there and own it up. I didn’t know how to. He went in for me

Timmy: What’s her name again?

Me: It’s K**y

he walked up to the girl while the indian guys were trying to bounce her.

Timmy: Heyyyy K**y (he immediately asserted his dominance by wrapping his arm around her)

The indian guys started to flip out.

TallIndian: Hey! do you know her?

Timmy: Yea (still asserting dominance)

TallIndian: (to her) do you know him? what’s his name?

Slut: Yeah I know him..we’re friends

TallIndian: (desperately to Timmy) Okay what’s HER NAME then??? huh??

Timmy: I DON’T HAVE TO ANSWER TO YOU.

Timmy owned it up. The indian guys finally called it quits, and just walked away. I ran up to rejoin.

Timmy and I kept reassuring her that her friend is okay. Timmy informed me how to convinced her that we should just go across the street to sit down so she could sober up. She kept resisting and eventually agreed. Tieguy eventually rejoined us outside too.

This girl took off her heels and wanted to walk across the street barefoot.

Me: No no no you don’t want to do that! There’s could be glass all over the floor

Timmy quickly tells me to give her a PIGGYBACK RIDE.

Me: Here K**y, hop on…you don’t want to step on glass

She jumped on and I ran her across the street like a game of Frogger. I had to wait for cars to pass, and then I made for the dash. Timmy took photos of this moment.

Eventually her friend called. From the sound of it, her friend was hooking up or something. At the same time, I noticed that some guy kept calling her phone. She was blatantly lying to this guy:

Her: Yeah I had pizza with some friends. I’m on my way home already. yeaaaaa

This guy kept calling her and checking on her. It didn’t occur to me till later that this was HER BOYFRIEND. I looked at her left ring finger and she had a friendship type of ring. Oh man what a slut!!!

The pizza finally came out. Timmy, Tieguy, and the brunette ate. I just sat next to her and kino’d her thigh the whole time. Timmy pulled me away to talk to me in private in the back of the parlor a few times. He was teaching me sex game on the spot. We were going to bounce her.

Timmy and Tieguy convinced her that she should just come over to the hotel first to crash, and that we could drop her off in the morning. She finally agreed. Once pizza was done. Timmy ran off to get the car while she and Tieguy had a conversation.

I started to feel that something was off. She had completely stopped reciprocating her kino ever since we got into the pizza parlor. I haven’t really talked to her at all here. Timmy and Tieguy were doing all the comfort talking on my behalf. THEY convinced her to bounce. (I didn’t know how to do it.)

When Timmy brought up the car, we all left the pizza place and took off. She and I were in the backseat, while Timmy and Tieguy were at the front. Timmy blasted some tunes. She was enjoying it. We didn’t talk at all or touch. It didn’t feel right. She got flirty on Timmy and Tieguy on the ride back to the hotel.

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Bringing her back to the Hotel so I can finally loose my Virginity

So the four of us all got into the elevator and went up. We all got into the room. She immeidately went to the bathroom to make a phone call to her boyfriend. I didn’t know what to do:

Me: Dude, did you see that? She didn’t want to go up unless you guys came up too!

Timmy and Tieguy said he noticed, and we all quickly worked on creating a less-sex mood in the room.

• We turned ON some more lights. Timmy was telling me to get ready to sex her up. The plan was to have all four of us hang out a little bit, and then Timmy and Tieguy would pull a dissapearing act to leave us two alone.

When she came out of the bathroom she immediately went to lie down on the bed. Timmy left teh room. Tieguy went to use the bathroom.

• I started carressing her and tried to kiss her.
• She gave me a kiss. After that, she started checking her iPhone constantly. Her boyfriend was texting her and she was typing and shit.
• I kept trying to carress and sweet talk her.
• I tried building comfort by reminding her how I felt about her when we met earlier in the night. BAD MOVE. I didn’t realize that this girl was a major slut and that this kind of talk is what she does NOT want to hear.
• I started speaking in this “nice sweet guy” tone. The kino on her back and arm wasn’t working.

Her: ..can you take me home now?

Me: (i give up) yea, let’s go then

I walk her out of the room and get her downstairs. Timmy and Tieguy are waiting out at the lobby chairs.

Me: Hey Timmy. We gotta take her back. (I’m giving them this look of failure because I couldn’t get her to give it up)

We ended up dropping her off at her place. She was having flirty conversation with Timmy and Tieguy in the car on the way. I didn’t even exist at this point. We eventually dropped her off.

What a crazy night. This was my first experience with “LAST MINUTE RESISTANCE” and NONE of it would have been possible without the REALTIME coaching from Timmy.

• He literally helped me paved the way from bar—-> pizza—> hotel.

SUPERBOWL SUNDAY

We worked out at Gold’s Gym first thing Sunday. Afterwards, Tieguy wasn’t feeling very well.

We went back to the hotel. I could tell Timmy was bothered about something. I felt like crap too. A lot of women were anticipated to show up to the Social House event, but they didn’t show up.

+++++++++++++++MY BIGGEST AH-HAH MOMENT++++++++++++++++++

Timmy finally vented what it was that was bothering him. He wasn’t happy with the fact that I didn’t seem PUMPED UP or FIRED UP to get approaches in. He wasn’t liking my passive attitude during the whole weekend. He brought up the example of the indian chick at one of the bars. She was a FREEBIE approach, but I didn’t do it. He asked me if I’m even pissed off about the day. I told him I was. He didn’t believe me.

I then began to explain to him, how I don’t see any point in getting angry. I told him that I didn’t want to be a complainer.

• This is where he started explaining to me that being angry and complaining are two different things. I told him that I tend to channel my anger into other things. We started talking about bottling up emotions and not letting it out.

Timmy said I had one missing key ingredient to my whole package.

• I didn’t have EDGE, and it was the one of the key things I needed in order to be successful at this. I needed to be more AGGRESSIVE, but I came off as PASSIVE.

We started talking about my past, upbringing, and how I dealt with confrontation in my life. After talking about this some more, I started to get more pissed off. It became apparent that I had let people walk over me in my life. I avoided confrontation. I only let my anger get bottled up.

Timmy was on to something very KEY. He told me to VENT, and that it’s perfectly healthy to VENT.

I started to understand what it was that bothered Timmy about me. I needed to let it out and VENT. I started getting worked up. I WANTED TO VENT. I needed to bring out the AGGRESSION. It’s something that MEN have and what boys don’t. This was the EDGE.

Timmy started noticing a change in my demeanor as I started getting worked up. He assigned me a goal for the evening: LET IT ALL OUT AND VENT.

We were all feeling pumped at this point.

+++

Tieguy, Timmy, and I all headed out to The Quarter Bar. We posted up at the bar. I felt like a wolf without a leash. I was feeling VERY worked up. This tall blonde came up to order a drink on my side. I didn’t give a FUCK. Off I went and VENTED.

Me: (saying to Timmy and Tieguy on my left) I’M FUCKING PISSED OFF MAN

The blonde on my right obviously heard it and got a whiff of my AGGRESSION. She looked at me.

Me: I’m so PISSED that the SAINTS won! (making up bullshit to be pissed off about)

Blonde: O_O

Me: Yeahh! I bet 50 bucks on the COLTS. Man, was that the wrong thing to do. (bullshit)

Blonde: Hah yeahhh…..you do seem really pissed off…..but is this really about a woman?

Me: You know what? Yeahhhh actually IT IS about a woman. I’m still pissed off about the saints, but yeah it’s this girl. (turning my body towards her at this point)

Blonde: O_O (she’s totally sucked in with my aggression)

Me: Yeahhh so I went on this date last week right…..we totally hit it off throughout the night…..at the end of the night, omg…let me TELL you…..we had the most INTENSE and HOT moment

Blonde: O_O (eyes widening even more….she’s almost frightened too)

I started illustrating to her about my almost-kiss moment.

Me: I can’t really explain it, but let me tell you it WAS SOOO HOT…..MUCH better than a kiss itself

Blonde: Really??? What was it like?? umm, well obviously you can’t show it to me

Me: HAH yeah……but just IMAGINE…..a guy that you LOVE AND LUST so much for….you’re going in for the kisss….HOLD IT RIGHT THERE….can you feel that????

Blonde: O_O

Me: YEah exactly…like that….but get this….she proceeded to explain to me that the physical attraction was there but there was no SPARK…no EMOTIONAL connection…….she really did me in….i know this sounds silly and it was only ONE date…but i started developing feelings for this girl throughout the night because of her qualities as a person

BLonde: uh huh O_O (really captivated)

Me: But then she told me that this wouldn’t work out…and that we could not date each other….(caring more about VENTING than gaming this chick)….SHE LEFT THIS BRUISE ON MY HEART…..I’m still feeling it right now *right hand over my chest*….SO PISSED OFF

Blonde: (frightened right now)……….i’m going to get back to my friends over there…….

Timmy told me that I had keep my aggression in check and to dial it back accordingly.

I saw this girl with a guy and wanted to game her:

I walked on up to her with full venting throttle:

Timmy: Roger, you had some SWAGGER there!

Me: Oh yeah?? It’s the EDGE MAN. I think I FOund it!

I was feeling very happy at this point that Timmy’s point had sunk into me. I posted myself at this railing at the front of the venue. I felt the AGGRESSION. Some dude needed to walk past me since I was in the way. I didn’t budge.

Guy: Excuse me (politely)

I just looked at him and gave him this asshole hand gesture that “it’s cool.” He walked past. Timmy mentioned that the guy had a WTF expression on his face on his way out.

My aggression was surely pissing people off, and I made sure to finally dial it back. The VENTING felt good.

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After getting a good buzz going, we all headed down the street to Mantus Ultra Lounge.

Tieguy: This is the MOST PRETENTIOUS place in Dallas.

Me: Yeah, I feel it already.

As we walked in, this feeling of snobbyness overwhelmed me. I made sure to maintain SWAGGER all the way. After making rounds through this stuffy venue, we just danced. I made sure to apply the dancefloor game Timmy taught me from Saturday. I kept the dancing CHILL and CLEAN. I resisted attempts to do any flashy/try-hard dancing which is what I’m used to. At some point, this short and petite girl dancing with her friend was checking me out. I didn’t notice it.

Timmy: Hey she checked you out. Go in!

Me: Okay! How do I do it?

Timmy demonstrated how he would go in on me.

While maintaing sync with the music, I closed the distance between the girl and I. I asserted my hand on her arm and turned her around. I held my hands out and gave her a look of expectancy for her to hold hers out.

Still maintaining sync, I grabbed one of her hands and pulled some dancefloor game moves in succession as I learned with Timmy.

1) Opposite side spin + sensual kino + controlling her hips

2) Same side spin + sensual kino + more hip control + eased off and backed off + checked her out up and down blatantly + teasy “damn you’re hot!” gesture

We danced a bit more, and I decided to have some more fun. I tried to go for the X-Spin and ended up totally messing it up. It was hilarious.

+++

We all finally left Mantus. Timmy and Tieguy were talking about some place called Slip Inn.

There was this one girl who was dancing on top of a sofa and propped up against the DJ booth. Timmy went up to her and got her to turn around. He took her back down the ground and pulled the LOWER BACK PAIN on her. If you don’t know what that is, immediately watch:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HbtD_y_X3SU

Anyways he started pulling all this dancefloor game on her—stuff that was way more advanced than what I had learned. Eventually it got really rough, and I saw Timmy cavemanning her to the back of the room.  Timmy was about to bounce her out of the bar when she started talking to some frineds of her around the bar. She had actually left her purse at the counter. A stranger had rushed her purse over to her.

Timmy kept his cool and asserted his dominance while she said her goodbyes to some friends around. They finally bounced. They were going to our hotel room. When the place was near closing time, I went outside to grab some fresh air. A friend of the redhead’s was on the phone:

Friend: Yeahhhh she just took off with some Asian guy….i don’t know if she knew him

I started smirking and just went back inside to chill. The place was closing now.

When I got back to the hotel, Timmy said it was safe to come back in.

As I walked in, the redhead was just finished getting dressed. The place was a wreck. Timmy had left a used condom on the nightstand. When the redhead went to use the bathroom, I looked at Timmy.

Me: (pointing to the condom) Dude man….LOOK….cmon man!
Timmy: (big grin on his face) ohh whoops….(he grabs the condom and just chucks it on the floor)
Me: Awwww ewww…dude! Which bed did you use????
Timmy: (looking at either bed) This one

I looked at both beds. They both looked used. I didn’t want to touch either bed. So I just grabbed the desk chair and hung out. The redhead had came out of the bathroom and she started whining at Timmy.

Redhead: blablablabla….so we just FUCKED and I really want Korean food thoughhhh….can we get some Korean fooood?????

It was roughly 3am in the morning.

Redhead: Korean food is soo good…..can you take me to get some korean food???

Eventually, Timmy had no choice but to drive her wherever. I don’t know what they did out there. Tieguy eventually made it back. I asked him if he boned, but he didn’t. He didn’t seem in the mood.

Me: Ohhh…just to let you know…i dumped all the dirty sheets onto the bed you’re sleeping in….and watch your step *pointing to the condom*

Tieguy: it doesn’t bother me

Tieguy slips into the messy bed and just knocks out. HAhahahaha.

It wasn’t until very late that Timmy finally came back. He was telling us how he was cracking up when he went to go eat with the redhead, because of what happened with the condom and I. While he’s saying this, the condom was STILL SITTING on the floor.

Me: Dude….it’s still there *pointing*

Timmy just cracked up.

oh. and he comes back w/ pictures.. censored versions:

Yes. he was very tired. 6 am when this was taken.

GOOD TIMES!

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In the morning, we all just reflected and talked about what happened over the weekend. Timmy was proud of what I had accomplished. I told him that I’m not satisfied, because there’s so much more that I need to learn. We finally said our goodbyes, and I promised Timmy that he was going to hear MORE from me when I go to game back at home.

I hopped into the airport shuttle, and that was the end of my weekend.

TIMMY

This was an amazing experience. With Timmy’s help, I was able to experience almost EVERYTHING it is with dealing with women: the approach, the game, the logistics, and the bedroom. I literally experienced EVERYTHING except for the sex itself. This review/report cannot do justice for what I experienced. I tried recollecting everything that happened, but what you read makes only about 25% of it.

When I spent my time with Timmy, I realized that I was not learning to be another “Timmy.” I was learning how to be the best SELF. Timmy was simply bringing the SEXY out of me. Having Tieguy there was also a great bonus. I got to see him work his charm in his own unique style.

Everybody is a unique individual. Timmy taught me things that are universally attractive for men. As we spent more time together, Timmy was able to pick out individual sticking points and to address them immediately.

When I met Timmy, I immediately felt his STRONG presence. He cannot be underestimated. His website, this forum, etc. do not do justice. You won’t know what I’m talking about until you meet him in person. When he goes around outside, his aura simply commands respect.

He is a REAL instructor. He did have a general outline of things that he needed to teach me. However, I had so many individual sticking pts. Timmy was able to ADAPT to my issues and address them accordingly. He was able to stray from the general course and coach me in REALTIME in the field. This is something you cannot experience elsewhere. You need somebody with EXPERIENCE to see you in action. He also understood that he had to teach me lessons step by step—-not give me some long laundry list which would have overloaded and paralyzed my brain. Timmy does not say he’s perfect. In fact, I saw him actually learning and improving his own game while we spent our time together. Tieguy has some very smooth flirting game, and I saw Timmy discussing with Tieguy about it. Timmy is always learning. This is a sign of a REAL INSTRUCTOR. Real instructors do not say that they are perfect and that their knowledge is gospel. A real professor at a university does not say he knows everything. A real professor still does research to constantly learn and improve his knowledge. Timmy is the same way with GAME.

Timmy gives back as much as you give him. I knew from the get-go that how much I got out of Timmy was totally dependent of how much effort I PUT IN. He does not hold your hand. If you are serious and put in 100%, Timmy will GUIDE YOU and support you 100% on the spot.

In the end, it’s all about yourself. I very well knew that I had only a weekend together with Timmy. Ultimately, I had to go back home, and I would be back on my own again. Timmy is not a magic pill to your problems. He did however unleash the motherfucking beast inside of me. As I’m writing this, I am getting ready to go out tonight and work on my GAME with some new confidence. When I run into some more sticking pts, I know that Timmy is going to be there for me as my new friend.

If you’re trying to decide whether or not to spend time with Timmy, just ask yourself: How bad do you want it? If you said REALLLY BAD. Book your package with Timmy NOW. You won’t have any regrets.