Be safe,

-Parker Lee

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BACKGROUND

Before I begin this review, I’m going to give you guys a bit of background of who I am and where I’m coming from. I grew up as the quiet, shy, and introverted sibling. I grew up in a strict household where education and good virtues were everything. I had literally zero experience interacting with women until late in junior high. Like every adolescent, I had really bad crushes, except I was scared to death to talk to girls. I still remember during the junior high dances that I would always feel all jealous & sad seeing Mr. Popular slowdancing with Ms. Popular. Also in an effort to impress, I started learning how to break-dance, so I could show off in the school dance circles. This inbalanced and misguided type of thinking is how I dictated my life all the way till getting my Bachelor’s degree. I interacted with girls on a sparingly basis during this period. I became your definition of Mr. Nice Guy.

I studied material from an array of sources from PUA “gurus” and self-help books including David Deangelo, Mystery, Pickup101. I tried applying the stuff I studied on my own and “sarged” with local PUA wings. It never worked out the way I expected it. I went through different “phases” of shitty game:

- The asshole who acted excessively cocky which came off as very try-hard and incongruent
- The guy who thought “negging” meant insulting women for unwarranted reasons
- The guy who came off as fruity in an effort to be “playful direct”

While all this was going on, I couldn’t even carry a normal conversation with strange women. I had scripts in my head. I was NOT in the moment. I was a robot spitting out things that I have “studied.” Once I ran out of “material”, I would stall-out and have literally NOTHING to say.

HOW I FIRST LEARNED ABOUT TIMMY

I was a lurker for the most part on a Forum. I needed friends and a social-life, so I started asking for advice on a  forum. Timmy responded with awesome advice. I applied what he told me to do and saw instant results through my efforts and application.

I started to realize how much I underestimated Timmy. His advice was SPOT-ON for the problems I was posting about at the time. (Do a search for my threads on the CA forum and see for yourself.) I got interested, and took Timmy up for a free consultation call.

THE INVESTMENT FOR MY LIFE

During the consultation with Timmy, I immediately appreciated his no-nonsense attitude. He had recently left Charisma Arts to run his own show, and he offered me three of his programs:

- Skype/Phone Coaching

- Private Instruction Weekend

- Full package with both

HOW I GOT PREPARED

I prepared for my private instruction weekend through phone coaching with Timmy and doing the homework he assigned to me. You can see most of my efforts here at this thread:

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FRIDAY

Timmy assigned me my goal for Friday evening: FUN and LEADING (conversationally and physically)

It was an anti-valentines day party, and you were supposed to bring a picture of your ex. Then you would place a picture of that ex on the “wall of shame” where you would proceed to throw darts at it. The facebook confirmed list showed plenty of hot ladies.

I noticed over my shoulder that there was this tall brunette standing alone. I felt the vibe that she was hovering. I immediately went for it.

Me: Hey, how’s your night coming along?

Her: Gooooood

Me: You wanna know something! I looooove this city. Everyone has been so niiiiiceeee to me! Where I’m from, when you go out to make some new friends, and say hi….they give you this look and say ‘wat do you want’ (already grazing her upper arm with my hand)

Her: (smiling) Where are you from???

Me: I’m coming all the way from California!

Her: Ohhhh which part??

Me: [city name]

Her: Ohhhh yeahhhh…so what you doing here???

I tell her how I’m visiting Timmy, etc. I’m already rubbing the middle of her back while leaning in to hear her speak. Thank goodness for the loud music. I remembered to gather logistics immediately.

Me: So what brings you out tonight???

Her: I’m here because it’s my friend’s birthday!

Me: Oohhh cool…WHERE are your friends?

She points out the birthday girl. I could see birthday girl looking over at us anxiously. It was an impending cockblock. I think this is when I see Timmy approach the birthday girl. LOL! Timmy swooped in like a hawk.

So we started having basic info exchange about each other. I had to ask one more logistical question.

I sensed her body language shifting into high gear at this point. She’s standing closer into me. She doesn’t mind that our legs are rubbing against each other. my kino has been on the whole time. I look at her neck and notice a necklace. I wanted to escalate the kino further. Taking advice from earlier in the weekend that Timmy had gave me, I go for the necklace.

Me: Oooh cool lemme see your necklace *reach for it*

While holding the necklace in my hand, I gently stroked the bottom of her neckline with the back of my fingers.

Me: What’s it say??? Ohhh….just Tiffany and Co….hahah..

Finally I notice her birthday friend was on the loose. She was coming up towards us. I immediately walked TO HER for a preemptive strike.

ME: Heyyyyyy!!! You must be the birthday girl!!!

Bdaygirl: *wasn’t expecting me to do that* :/ (a bit unsure of me still)

Me: what’s your name????

Bdaygirl: [name]

Me: Happy birthday [name]!!!! *arms wide open for hug*

We hug.

Me: You know what [name], your friend here is sooooo coool!

Birthday girl gives me another once over, and looks at her friend. And then she smiles, and wanders off to her other friends. That was a close one. She was neutralized.

So I resumed talking to the brunette. We’re up against the bar counter. When she went to say something, this time I leaned all the way very close to her face.

Me: *Turning my head to sniff her hair and neck* OMG…..*sniff*….that smells soooo good…..what is that??

Her: *with the doggy dinner bowl look* …….

Me: Here check mine out

I lifted my chin up and tilted my head to the side to expose my jugular. With one hand already wrapped around her back, I used the free hand to direct her head to my neck to let her smell. Booom! I pulled Timmy’s signature “Vampire Move.”

After that she had the sex face. IT WAS ON. I gave her my sex face. And then it happened, we started making out in the middle of the room right at the bar counter.

Timmy was walking by after we had our first makeout session.

And then I lead her physically to a different spot. I wasn’t done yet, and I was about to go to town on her face. I walked her over to a wall. I assumed the “lock-in” position. I propped myself up against the wall, and then I pulled her in. We sucked each other’s faces dry and had some awesome tongue action. I could hear hooting and hollering in the background. Timmy snapped a photo of us at this magical moment.

When we were done making out, I knew she was worried about her friends. So I volunteered to handle this concern first before she would even mention it.

Me: Hey let’s go look for YOUR friends

Her: Okay

I was leading her around. We spot her friends. I gave her a compliment, and I followed it with a bounce proposition. I learned this from Timmy’s phone coaching. My proposition was as follows

Me: Ohhh you should really come over to check out my alcohol collection! (actually it was Timmy’s collection which he brought to our hotel room)

Her: Ohh what kind of alcohol???

Me: EVErrrrything’s there….vodka…crown royal…hypnotik…you name it!

Her: I’d love to come.

Me: Let’s get out of here!

Her: (hesitating) but i can’t! i promised [birthday girl] that I’d go home with her and sleep over

Me: Wow….i really like that you’re a loyal friend…..go let her know what’s up!

I wanted her to handle the logistics obstacle on her own. She went to her friend. Timmy comes up to me and tells me that I gotta BOUNCE HER NOW. I tell him about the logistical problem. She comes back after some time and we have the same exact discussion. We exchange numbers. I couldn’t keep pushing her with the same sales pitch. Timmy and I meet outside for a talk. I let him know about the logistical problem. Timmy is giving me major props for how far I took the interaction thus far. This was a magical moment.

I had already decided that it was going to be impossible to bounce her. At this point, I’m still dazed and happy about the makeout.

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When all the venues started closing, we all headed outside. Now I spotted two indian guys trying to bounce the brunette girl. She didn’t seem very convinced.

Me: Timmy!!! Look!! It’s her! What do I do now????

Timmy told me that I just needed to get in there and own it up. I didn’t know how to. He went in for me

Timmy: What’s her name again?

Me: It’s K**y

he walked up to the girl while the indian guys were trying to bounce her.

Timmy: Heyyyy K**y (he immediately asserted his dominance by wrapping his arm around her)

The indian guys started to flip out.

TallIndian: Hey! do you know her?

Timmy: Yea (still asserting dominance)

TallIndian: (to her) do you know him? what’s his name?

Slut: Yeah I know him..we’re friends

TallIndian: (desperately to Timmy) Okay what’s HER NAME then??? huh??

Timmy: I DON’T HAVE TO ANSWER TO YOU.

Timmy owned it up. The indian guys finally called it quits, and just walked away. I ran up to rejoin.

Timmy and I kept reassuring her that her friend is okay. Timmy informed me how to convinced her that we should just go across the street to sit down so she could sober up. She kept resisting and eventually agreed. Tieguy eventually rejoined us outside too.

This girl took off her heels and wanted to walk across the street barefoot.

Me: No no no you don’t want to do that! There’s could be glass all over the floor

Timmy quickly tells me to give her a PIGGYBACK RIDE.

Me: Here K**y, hop on…you don’t want to step on glass

She jumped on and I ran her across the street like a game of Frogger. I had to wait for cars to pass, and then I made for the dash. Timmy took photos of this moment.

Eventually her friend called. From the sound of it, her friend was hooking up or something. At the same time, I noticed that some guy kept calling her phone. She was blatantly lying to this guy:

Her: Yeah I had pizza with some friends. I’m on my way home already. yeaaaaa

This guy kept calling her and checking on her. It didn’t occur to me till later that this was HER BOYFRIEND. I looked at her left ring finger and she had a friendship type of ring. Oh man what a slut!!!

The pizza finally came out. Timmy, Tieguy, and the brunette ate. I just sat next to her and kino’d her thigh the whole time. Timmy pulled me away to talk to me in private in the back of the parlor a few times. He was teaching me sex game on the spot. We were going to bounce her.

Timmy and Tieguy convinced her that she should just come over to the hotel first to crash, and that we could drop her off in the morning. She finally agreed. Once pizza was done. Timmy ran off to get the car while she and Tieguy had a conversation.

I started to feel that something was off. She had completely stopped reciprocating her kino ever since we got into the pizza parlor. I haven’t really talked to her at all here. Timmy and Tieguy were doing all the comfort talking on my behalf. THEY convinced her to bounce. (I didn’t know how to do it.)

When Timmy brought up the car, we all left the pizza place and took off. She and I were in the backseat, while Timmy and Tieguy were at the front. Timmy blasted some tunes. She was enjoying it. We didn’t talk at all or touch. It didn’t feel right. She got flirty on Timmy and Tieguy on the ride back to the hotel.

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Bringing her back to the Hotel so I can finally loose my Virginity

So the four of us all got into the elevator and went up. We all got into the room. She immeidately went to the bathroom to make a phone call to her boyfriend. I didn’t know what to do:

Me: Dude, did you see that? She didn’t want to go up unless you guys came up too!

Timmy and Tieguy said he noticed, and we all quickly worked on creating a less-sex mood in the room.

• We turned ON some more lights. Timmy was telling me to get ready to sex her up. The plan was to have all four of us hang out a little bit, and then Timmy and Tieguy would pull a dissapearing act to leave us two alone.

When she came out of the bathroom she immediately went to lie down on the bed. Timmy left teh room. Tieguy went to use the bathroom.

• I started carressing her and tried to kiss her.
• She gave me a kiss. After that, she started checking her iPhone constantly. Her boyfriend was texting her and she was typing and shit.
• I kept trying to carress and sweet talk her.
• I tried building comfort by reminding her how I felt about her when we met earlier in the night. BAD MOVE. I didn’t realize that this girl was a major slut and that this kind of talk is what she does NOT want to hear.
• I started speaking in this “nice sweet guy” tone. The kino on her back and arm wasn’t working.

Her: ..can you take me home now?

Me: (i give up) yea, let’s go then

I walk her out of the room and get her downstairs. Timmy and Tieguy are waiting out at the lobby chairs.

Me: Hey Timmy. We gotta take her back. (I’m giving them this look of failure because I couldn’t get her to give it up)

We ended up dropping her off at her place. She was having flirty conversation with Timmy and Tieguy in the car on the way. I didn’t even exist at this point. We eventually dropped her off.

What a crazy night. This was my first experience with “LAST MINUTE RESISTANCE” and NONE of it would have been possible without the REALTIME coaching from Timmy.

• He literally helped me paved the way from bar—-> pizza—> hotel.

SUPERBOWL SUNDAY

We worked out at Gold’s Gym first thing Sunday. Afterwards, Tieguy wasn’t feeling very well.

We went back to the hotel. I could tell Timmy was bothered about something. I felt like crap too. A lot of women were anticipated to show up to the Social House event, but they didn’t show up.

+++++++++++++++MY BIGGEST AH-HAH MOMENT++++++++++++++++++

Timmy finally vented what it was that was bothering him. He wasn’t happy with the fact that I didn’t seem PUMPED UP or FIRED UP to get approaches in. He wasn’t liking my passive attitude during the whole weekend. He brought up the example of the indian chick at one of the bars. She was a FREEBIE approach, but I didn’t do it. He asked me if I’m even pissed off about the day. I told him I was. He didn’t believe me.

I then began to explain to him, how I don’t see any point in getting angry. I told him that I didn’t want to be a complainer.

• This is where he started explaining to me that being angry and complaining are two different things. I told him that I tend to channel my anger into other things. We started talking about bottling up emotions and not letting it out.

Timmy said I had one missing key ingredient to my whole package.

• I didn’t have EDGE, and it was the one of the key things I needed in order to be successful at this. I needed to be more AGGRESSIVE, but I came off as PASSIVE.

We started talking about my past, upbringing, and how I dealt with confrontation in my life. After talking about this some more, I started to get more pissed off. It became apparent that I had let people walk over me in my life. I avoided confrontation. I only let my anger get bottled up.

Timmy was on to something very KEY. He told me to VENT, and that it’s perfectly healthy to VENT.

I started to understand what it was that bothered Timmy about me. I needed to let it out and VENT. I started getting worked up. I WANTED TO VENT. I needed to bring out the AGGRESSION. It’s something that MEN have and what boys don’t. This was the EDGE.

Timmy started noticing a change in my demeanor as I started getting worked up. He assigned me a goal for the evening: LET IT ALL OUT AND VENT.

We were all feeling pumped at this point.

+++

Tieguy, Timmy, and I all headed out to The Quarter Bar. We posted up at the bar. I felt like a wolf without a leash. I was feeling VERY worked up. This tall blonde came up to order a drink on my side. I didn’t give a FUCK. Off I went and VENTED.

Me: (saying to Timmy and Tieguy on my left) I’M FUCKING PISSED OFF MAN

The blonde on my right obviously heard it and got a whiff of my AGGRESSION. She looked at me.

Me: I’m so PISSED that the SAINTS won! (making up bullshit to be pissed off about)

Blonde: O_O

Me: Yeahh! I bet 50 bucks on the COLTS. Man, was that the wrong thing to do. (bullshit)

Blonde: Hah yeahhh…..you do seem really pissed off…..but is this really about a woman?

Me: You know what? Yeahhhh actually IT IS about a woman. I’m still pissed off about the saints, but yeah it’s this girl. (turning my body towards her at this point)

Blonde: O_O (she’s totally sucked in with my aggression)

Me: Yeahhh so I went on this date last week right…..we totally hit it off throughout the night…..at the end of the night, omg…let me TELL you…..we had the most INTENSE and HOT moment

Blonde: O_O (eyes widening even more….she’s almost frightened too)

I started illustrating to her about my almost-kiss moment.

Me: I can’t really explain it, but let me tell you it WAS SOOO HOT…..MUCH better than a kiss itself

Blonde: Really??? What was it like?? umm, well obviously you can’t show it to me

Me: HAH yeah……but just IMAGINE…..a guy that you LOVE AND LUST so much for….you’re going in for the kisss….HOLD IT RIGHT THERE….can you feel that????

Blonde: O_O

Me: YEah exactly…like that….but get this….she proceeded to explain to me that the physical attraction was there but there was no SPARK…no EMOTIONAL connection…….she really did me in….i know this sounds silly and it was only ONE date…but i started developing feelings for this girl throughout the night because of her qualities as a person

BLonde: uh huh O_O (really captivated)

Me: But then she told me that this wouldn’t work out…and that we could not date each other….(caring more about VENTING than gaming this chick)….SHE LEFT THIS BRUISE ON MY HEART…..I’m still feeling it right now *right hand over my chest*….SO PISSED OFF

Blonde: (frightened right now)……….i’m going to get back to my friends over there…….

Timmy told me that I had keep my aggression in check and to dial it back accordingly.

I saw this girl with a guy and wanted to game her:

I walked on up to her with full venting throttle:

Timmy: Roger, you had some SWAGGER there!

Me: Oh yeah?? It’s the EDGE MAN. I think I FOund it!

I was feeling very happy at this point that Timmy’s point had sunk into me. I posted myself at this railing at the front of the venue. I felt the AGGRESSION. Some dude needed to walk past me since I was in the way. I didn’t budge.

Guy: Excuse me (politely)

I just looked at him and gave him this asshole hand gesture that “it’s cool.” He walked past. Timmy mentioned that the guy had a WTF expression on his face on his way out.

My aggression was surely pissing people off, and I made sure to finally dial it back. The VENTING felt good.

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After getting a good buzz going, we all headed down the street to Mantus Ultra Lounge.

Tieguy: This is the MOST PRETENTIOUS place in Dallas.

Me: Yeah, I feel it already.

As we walked in, this feeling of snobbyness overwhelmed me. I made sure to maintain SWAGGER all the way. After making rounds through this stuffy venue, we just danced. I made sure to apply the dancefloor game Timmy taught me from Saturday. I kept the dancing CHILL and CLEAN. I resisted attempts to do any flashy/try-hard dancing which is what I’m used to. At some point, this short and petite girl dancing with her friend was checking me out. I didn’t notice it.

Timmy: Hey she checked you out. Go in!

Me: Okay! How do I do it?

Timmy demonstrated how he would go in on me.

While maintaing sync with the music, I closed the distance between the girl and I. I asserted my hand on her arm and turned her around. I held my hands out and gave her a look of expectancy for her to hold hers out.

Still maintaining sync, I grabbed one of her hands and pulled some dancefloor game moves in succession as I learned with Timmy.

1) Opposite side spin + sensual kino + controlling her hips

2) Same side spin + sensual kino + more hip control + eased off and backed off + checked her out up and down blatantly + teasy “damn you’re hot!” gesture

We danced a bit more, and I decided to have some more fun. I tried to go for the X-Spin and ended up totally messing it up. It was hilarious.

+++

We all finally left Mantus. Timmy and Tieguy were talking about some place called Slip Inn.

There was this one girl who was dancing on top of a sofa and propped up against the DJ booth. Timmy went up to her and got her to turn around. He took her back down the ground and pulled the LOWER BACK PAIN on her. If you don’t know what that is, immediately watch:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HbtD_y_X3SU

Anyways he started pulling all this dancefloor game on her—stuff that was way more advanced than what I had learned. Eventually it got really rough, and I saw Timmy cavemanning her to the back of the room.  Timmy was about to bounce her out of the bar when she started talking to some frineds of her around the bar. She had actually left her purse at the counter. A stranger had rushed her purse over to her.

Timmy kept his cool and asserted his dominance while she said her goodbyes to some friends around. They finally bounced. They were going to our hotel room. When the place was near closing time, I went outside to grab some fresh air. A friend of the redhead’s was on the phone:

Friend: Yeahhhh she just took off with some Asian guy….i don’t know if she knew him

I started smirking and just went back inside to chill. The place was closing now.

When I got back to the hotel, Timmy said it was safe to come back in.

As I walked in, the redhead was just finished getting dressed. The place was a wreck. Timmy had left a used condom on the nightstand. When the redhead went to use the bathroom, I looked at Timmy.

Me: (pointing to the condom) Dude man….LOOK….cmon man!
Timmy: (big grin on his face) ohh whoops….(he grabs the condom and just chucks it on the floor)
Me: Awwww ewww…dude! Which bed did you use????
Timmy: (looking at either bed) This one

I looked at both beds. They both looked used. I didn’t want to touch either bed. So I just grabbed the desk chair and hung out. The redhead had came out of the bathroom and she started whining at Timmy.

Redhead: blablablabla….so we just FUCKED and I really want Korean food thoughhhh….can we get some Korean fooood?????

It was roughly 3am in the morning.

Redhead: Korean food is soo good…..can you take me to get some korean food???

Eventually, Timmy had no choice but to drive her wherever. I don’t know what they did out there. Tieguy eventually made it back. I asked him if he boned, but he didn’t. He didn’t seem in the mood.

Me: Ohhh…just to let you know…i dumped all the dirty sheets onto the bed you’re sleeping in….and watch your step *pointing to the condom*

Tieguy: it doesn’t bother me

Tieguy slips into the messy bed and just knocks out. HAhahahaha.

It wasn’t until very late that Timmy finally came back. He was telling us how he was cracking up when he went to go eat with the redhead, because of what happened with the condom and I. While he’s saying this, the condom was STILL SITTING on the floor.

Me: Dude….it’s still there *pointing*

Timmy just cracked up.

oh. and he comes back w/ pictures.. censored versions:

Yes. he was very tired. 6 am when this was taken.

GOOD TIMES!

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In the morning, we all just reflected and talked about what happened over the weekend. Timmy was proud of what I had accomplished. I told him that I’m not satisfied, because there’s so much more that I need to learn. We finally said our goodbyes, and I promised Timmy that he was going to hear MORE from me when I go to game back at home.

I hopped into the airport shuttle, and that was the end of my weekend.

TIMMY

This was an amazing experience. With Timmy’s help, I was able to experience almost EVERYTHING it is with dealing with women: the approach, the game, the logistics, and the bedroom. I literally experienced EVERYTHING except for the sex itself. This review/report cannot do justice for what I experienced. I tried recollecting everything that happened, but what you read makes only about 25% of it.

When I spent my time with Timmy, I realized that I was not learning to be another “Timmy.” I was learning how to be the best SELF. Timmy was simply bringing the SEXY out of me. Having Tieguy there was also a great bonus. I got to see him work his charm in his own unique style.

Everybody is a unique individual. Timmy taught me things that are universally attractive for men. As we spent more time together, Timmy was able to pick out individual sticking points and to address them immediately.

When I met Timmy, I immediately felt his STRONG presence. He cannot be underestimated. His website, this forum, etc. do not do justice. You won’t know what I’m talking about until you meet him in person. When he goes around outside, his aura simply commands respect.

He is a REAL instructor. He did have a general outline of things that he needed to teach me. However, I had so many individual sticking pts. Timmy was able to ADAPT to my issues and address them accordingly. He was able to stray from the general course and coach me in REALTIME in the field. This is something you cannot experience elsewhere. You need somebody with EXPERIENCE to see you in action. He also understood that he had to teach me lessons step by step—-not give me some long laundry list which would have overloaded and paralyzed my brain. Timmy does not say he’s perfect. In fact, I saw him actually learning and improving his own game while we spent our time together. Tieguy has some very smooth flirting game, and I saw Timmy discussing with Tieguy about it. Timmy is always learning. This is a sign of a REAL INSTRUCTOR. Real instructors do not say that they are perfect and that their knowledge is gospel. A real professor at a university does not say he knows everything. A real professor still does research to constantly learn and improve his knowledge. Timmy is the same way with GAME.

Timmy gives back as much as you give him. I knew from the get-go that how much I got out of Timmy was totally dependent of how much effort I PUT IN. He does not hold your hand. If you are serious and put in 100%, Timmy will GUIDE YOU and support you 100% on the spot.

In the end, it’s all about yourself. I very well knew that I had only a weekend together with Timmy. Ultimately, I had to go back home, and I would be back on my own again. Timmy is not a magic pill to your problems. He did however unleash the motherfucking beast inside of me. As I’m writing this, I am getting ready to go out tonight and work on my GAME with some new confidence. When I run into some more sticking pts, I know that Timmy is going to be there for me as my new friend.

If you’re trying to decide whether or not to spend time with Timmy, just ask yourself: How bad do you want it? If you said REALLLY BAD. Book your package with Timmy NOW. You won’t have any regrets.

Summary

In my last entry, after some text game with Jackie I was able to finally get her to agree to see me, but not after giving me a little more crap.

In my last post I called Jackie but she didn’t pick up, here she sends me a text the next day (The day of our date):

Her: Sorry I missed your call. I fell asleep!

Me: You suck, now you Gotta wear something cute tonight (Side note: Throwing out another hoop for her to jump over)

Her: haha whats cute to you?

Me: Here’s  a good rule of thumb for you: Less is always better

Her: Uh.. not in this weather and also im a fashion major so thats not really true

Me: That’s what long coats are for. Well, less is always better is my opinion..if you could prove me wrong I’d love to see it (Side note: She’s calling me out telling me less is NOT always better. So I tell her it’s my opinion and I’m open to her suggestions)

Her: So why is this all about me trying to show you? What do you have to prove to me? (  Side note: Ok, so now she’s getting defensive, this is fine. Because she has been complying to my hoops I don’t mind jumping through her hoops.)

Me:  lol because you’re the one who missed my call! What kind of style do you like to see on me

Her: Well I’ve only seen you once and what you wore I liked.  Also I like real ghetto thug like pants down to your needs and tweety boxers showing and a tshirt five times your size. (Side note: She’s obviously joking, so I’m going to play along…because she has been a good girl. )

Me: That’s what I’m talkin about! But no Tweety Boxers…just Batman–is that ok?

Her:  Ehh I prefer something along the lines of slooney tunes and sesame street

Me: Ha Ha..Those are only on Tuesdays and Thursdays. Sorry!!

Her: Lol Okay, what plan did you have in mind later to do? (Side Note: It worked! Now her defenses are back down, time to fix logistics and get her to see me)

Me: I’ll be @ a birthday party w/ friends…come have some drinks w/ me and we’ll let the alcohol plan out our night (Side note: This message is something I teach my students, I call it “The Advertisement.”  At one point during a text/ or live interaction, You will have to ask a girl to see if she wants to commit to seeing or leaving a venue with you. This is where you have to have a good advertisement, basically– throw out a good reason as to why she should see you. This can be done through an array of ways (I’ll go in depth  about advertisements @ another time) In this case, The advertisement is:  “Come have some drinks w/ me and we’ll let the alcohol plan out our night” )

Her: Hah Okay sounds good. Where is this so called apartment party?

Me: It’s at ——–. What time will you be able to show up

Her: depends how long my dinner runs. Our jew dinner will start @ 7 and that’s downtown. Maybe I can get there around nineish tenish?

Me: You’re Jew? lol sexy… Sounds like a plan. I might get tipsy around eight…so expect some flirty notes early in the night

Her: Lolol no my brothers bf is and hes making us kosher dinner bec Im hyspanic and im all about he pork lol and maybe if your flirty me excited I might leave a little earlier to see you

Me: I like you.

Me: See ya tonight

Her: Pffttt you hardly know me AND you most liekly forgot what I look like

Me: From what I know.. I like what I hear. Just don’t mess it up! Lol..besides, that’s why we’re hangin out–to get to know each other (Side Note: Classic Statement of Intent)

Her: Pssh the street runs both ways, YOU don’t try to mess it up!

Me: Ha Ha..Text ya tonight. Be safe.

Later on in the night she texts me–

Her: Wine Glass number one!

Me: mmmm..A Toast..to good times to come

Her: Im tipsies! I’m having a brazilian caphirana

Her: Im druiekn

Me: Troubles calling my name tonight..And I’m Luvin it!

So she meets me up thirty minutes later, I drink a bit w/ her and hang out @ the party for about 30-45 minutes.

Bounce back to her place, and Bang Her Brains out.

This concludes the Segment on how to deal with crap tests, throwing out hoops and getting her to qualify for you. I hope you learned a thing or two.

I want to steer the next post in where I’m taking myself in the near future– Stay tuned. Until then, Be Safe!

If you’re just now getting caught up, read this post first.

Summary

In my last entry, Jackie tried testing me so I had to let her know that I don’t put up with crap tests. This was accomplished by:

• Letting her know that I’m right, this is done by having a good argument, and owned up to who I am.
• Letting her know that she messed up
• And walking away

I waited two days and sent her a text, my prediction was that she knew she had messed up and potentially ruined a good thing (me). So by texting her two days later, I was sure she was going to feel as if she still had a chance with me.

I sent her a text most people are familiar with, basically… it goes something along the lines of letting her know I have just witnessed something that has “reminded” me of her.

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Me: Today I went to visit me Family and couldn’t get my brother off that game World of Warcraft

just thought of ya lol

Her: Lol why? My bro plays that game

Me: Really?? Maybe our brothers have done a couple of quests together…never know

Her: Yeah homo quests we call it “Killing the Purple Warlock”

Me: Haha that’s funny… hearing all this gaming from you kinda makes me wanna try it out (Side note: I meant the game not the homo)

Her: The Gaming Part or Homo part? Both? (Side note:She’s trying to make fun of me, which is something I don’t mind.. However, I don’t put up with jokes questioning which way I swing, so I gotta put her back in her place)

Me: I don’t know what kind of guys you’re normally into

I only like women.

Her: Hahahaha I’m just askin! You said you wanted to get into it and we were talking about being homo

Me: Its ok, everyone makes mistakes. I love women, everything about them…always will be straight. Are you bi curious? (I put her in her place, then I quickly change topics by asking if she’s bi curious)

Her: Everyone makes mistakes? I’m not seeing the connection (Side Note: The average guy will try to explain himself. I don’t. This is something not worth explaining.

—–5 minutes later she sends another text—–

Her: Haha Glad to know! Me? Iam confident with my sexuality and I don’t have a problem saying women are beautiful and being attracted to them  (Side Note: Looks like she’s finally playing it my way…time to reward her for jumping through my hoop

Me: You’re weird. I like that

Me: I want to see you again (Side Note: I intentionally sent 2 separate text messages 10 seconds after another)

Her: Haha now im weird? And now you want to see me? Why is that?

Me: I’ve never met someone whose a nerd and yet, you know how to have fun…definitely someone worth getting to know in my book (Side Note: Classic SOI–statement of intent)

Her: Oooooooh boy! You’ve just scratched the surface babe

Me: I like what I’m hearing…

Her: Im a whole can of sheningans

Me: Sexual or Playful Sheningans

Her: One question though…

Me: ?

Her: Do you like cats?

Me: What the heck kind of question is that

Her: It determines out future together!! lol

Me: I heart cats. (Side Note: One of my favorite things to say in text, “I heart —-” or. “Heart you.”

Her: hahaha

Me: ummm..ok?

Her: I can’t be friends with people who don’t like cats lol I got four of them and I love cats

Me: I think me and you will get along just fine…Wait. You did say that you loved women, right? (Side note: I’m telling her I like her, but I’m throwing a little hoop-test in the end.. just to let her know winning me over isn’t too easy)

Her: I said I can be attracted why

Me: That’s my kinda girl I’m free later tonight and tomorrow after six (Side note: She passed my little “qualification test” so Im now going to invite her out to hang w/ me)

Her: In my bed I have a meeting tomorrow at eight am and I have dinner with my bros bf at seven. Maybe after?

Me: Text me after dinner tomorrow….and wear something cute for me

Her: Hah cold weather doesn’t permit any girl on wearing anything cute. It’s a major cockblock actually. What are your plans

—-At this point I decided to call her, because calling someone is much more memorable than just texting–

She didn’t pick up, this tells me she’s probably not the phone type of girl…so I’m just going to text her the next day.

I will finish the last and final part of how I closed this nerd/sex kitten lover in two days.

Be safe everyone!

What is it?

Women will often test guys.

It’s important to know how to deal with feminine testing. This is one of the BASICS: Once you demonstrate to a woman that she can manipulate you, she loses all sexual attraction for you and designates you as a PAWN. You MUST retain control and be the MAN.

Why do women test men?

Women test men for all sorts of reasons, and it’s mostly an unconscious process. Attractive women have a lot of options, and prefer men who are STRONG OF CHARACTER. If you were an attractive woman being chased by hundreds of guys, how would you go about eliminating the losers? You’d TEST them, in subtle ways that test for strength and personality. If you did this on a regular enough basis, this behavior would become unconscious and automatic. Women will ALWAYS test you! Deal with it, learn how to handle it, and move on.

Overview:

Today I’m going to cover:

• Sh!t tests
• Getting women to qualify for me
• Screening them

I will demonstrate all this through real life examples– one of which will be several Text Messages I recently exchanged with girls I’m dating. I will then do a breakdown of the meaning behind each text message.

Disclaimer: Before I start I want you to understand that I never go out of my way to give women crap, it’s only if they intentionally try to test me when I put them in their place–letting them know that I can banter around them with my eyes closed.

Premise: I called a girl the night before and she sent me a text the next morning.

Jackie: I’m drinkin’ went to Fubr( club) last night!

Me: I can’t believe you went out, drank, only to rub it in my face! What-a-Tease!

Jackie: MuHAHAHAHAAHAHAHA

Me: Bad girl’s need to be spanked.

Jackie: I’m no bad girl I keep it real

Me: Don’t trip chicken lip. Are you Tipsy?

Jackie: I love falling asleep at my desk

Me: Daydreaming of me? (Giving her a hoop to jump through)

Jackie: Lol actually daydreaming of my bed and pillows (She didn’t take my hoop, time to punish her)

Me: Boring! You’re letting me down

Jackie: Lol ok I’m playing online games

Me: I love nerds! Tel me something else about you I might like (another test for her to qualify for me)

Jackie: God I went out last night now I’m pretty drunkies

Me: Ha ha you’re a riot! Where was my drunk call if you were so drunk??

Her: I’m a terrible drunk called because I never make it around to call lol

Me: Haha…are you telling me you pass out after texting?? That’s Horrible! I hope that’s not the same case with sex… We are SO making out when you’re sober…don’t want you passing out on me

Her: Lmfao I’m a champ at drunk txting and you would like to know about my sex wouldn’t you? Making out sober is or middle schoolers btw. Get on my level! ( SHIT TEST:: she’s now trying to say that I’m the one chasing her–wanting to find out about her sex life. My mind set is that I’m always the prize, not the only way around.

Then she threw down another gauntlet telling me that making out sober is for middle schoolers?

Game on.

Her: How much do you pay for your place? ( She sent me this text after that first one… I’m going to ignore this one so I can put her in her place, first

Me: Not talking about sex is for grade schoolers–I’m a guy, just keeping it real with you. Are you telling me the only times you have ever really gotten in the moment with someone is when you’re wasted??

What’s so amazing about having a blurry memory and not able to fully be aware of a great experience such as sex?

Oh that’s right, it’s not sexy at all.

Good luck with your sloppy drunken sex escapades.

Her: Huh? What are you talking about? Im complete opposite of what you’re speaking mister.

Her: My dear friend, if you think I am some sloppy fish then you are severely mistaken. If you only really knew.     (She’s now qualifying for me. Time to make her feel as if she ruined a great thing)

Me: I only know what you tell me. How am I supposed to know that when you’re telling me how you love to make out when you’re wasted. I didn’t think you were like that until you sent me that comment.

Listen I gotta go

ttyl

Her: Bye

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Many guys put way to much stock into one girl, if you have the mentality that you are the prize– she will realize it to.

The power is knowing that you are right, letting her know that she messed up and walking away. I promise you that she will welcome and respect you more the next time you meet. Two days after when I sent her a message.. she replied back faster than bee on honey.

This is my the first segment of how to handle crap tests… I will give you guys the conclusion to how I walked away, and made it work with this girl in my next post(in two days).

Until then, Have a good one.

if you have any questions email or comment– timmy.

I hope everyone has been a blast on New Years, I want to start the New Years off by saying I am no longer working for CA. They have been good to me throughout the years and I definitely have no ill-feelings towards anyone.

I will be slowly but surely revealing to you guys what my plans are in the upcoming days, but rest assured: This year will be better and brighter than the last!

I will end this post with a recent but very memorable Field Report I recently had last week:

Normally I don’t write field reports anymore.. but this was just too good.

Pre-setting: I’m at a bar hanging with my friend..girl comes up to him touching his hair.

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Me: Hey! Hands off.. we don’t know where your hands have been!

Her: Omg you and your friend are gay huh.

Me: *giving her a very sarcastic look* Wow, you got me all figured out..*turning my back to her* (making it very awkward for her to stand there alone)

*3 seconds later*

Me: Wait! Why were you touching my friend’s hair again?

Her: Forget your friend, I like you!
Me: *sarcastic tonality as if I didn’t believe her* Really? Why. *giving her a very doubtful look*

Her: You’re Hot!

Me: Wow, that’s such a shallow thing to say! I have brains too y’know! *giving her a slight smirk* to indicate I’m joking with her.

Her: Wow, you’re short, how tall are you?
Me: Actually, YOU’RE pretty short, how tall are YOU?

Her: I’m five 9′

Me: My ex girlfriend was six two, you’re WAY too short for me.

Her: My brother’s 6’4, my father’s 6’1, my other brother is 7’2.

Me: *giving her a wtf are you smoking look* Sooo… what’s that have to do with you being too short for me, but listen.. you’re still adorable though. *I pinch her cheek as if you would pinch a 3 year old’s cheek for being cute*

Her: Look, I am Sexy!
Me: I’m not too sure about that I gotta get a better look.. make a twirl for me.
*She twirls*

*I spank her ass…*

Me: hmmm… not bad *another slight smirk towards her.

Me: What are you doing later?

Her: I’m not sure, I’m on a blind date with that guy over there

Me: THAT GUY?? ha ha… have fun.

her: Heey that’s mean! I know.. rescue me please!

Me: Listen, I’m going to tell you my situation:
At 11:30 I’m going to leave with my friend to a club called Mantus.

Her: cool I’ll come with.

Me: *Giving her a doubtful look* No you’re not.
Her: Why??

Me: *looking her dead straight in the eye as if I were talking to a three year old for being bad*
Look. I haven’t seen my friend in two years, so it’s a guy’s night out. The only way you’re going to see me the rest of the night, is if you take me home right now.

Her: What kind of girl do you think I am??

Me: A three date kind of girl *smiles*

Her: More like two…

Me: oh you’re bad… *feeling up on her coooch*

Me: let me show you how much fun I’m having with you… *takes her hand and put it on my cock*

Her: omg your cock is huge! *she starts showing me naked pictures of herself on her phone*

Me: That does it. I’m about to leave soon, are we going to your house or not.

Her: No.

Me: ha ha then go have fun with your blind date. *turn my back towards her completely ignoring her*

*I start to chat back up to my wing pretending she’s not even there*

*two minutes pass*

Her: Hey! *looks at straight in mu eye* I’m THAT-kind-of-girl.

Me: What kind of girl?

Her: You know!

Me: So we’re going to your house.

Her: Yes!

Me: lead the way.

*looking at my friend–he’s smiling…all the fellas around the area can’t believe wtf’s going on*

*we walk outside*

Me: Ok where’s your car.
Her: I don’t have one, I came here w/ that other guy.
Me: Ok we’ll take mine to your house.
Her: What?? I live with my family, we’re not going to my house.
Me: Are you serious? We’re not going to your house?
Her: No.

Me: *gives her the dirtiest.. wtf look* *turning around walking back to the bar leaving her in the night while saying: F-U-C-K-I-N-G waste of time. I can’t believe this shit.

*I walk back inside the bar, sit down and chat with my friend, two hot girls arrive*
*two minutes pass as I’m talking to the two hot girls…all the while– the girl who I left outside walks in and sits right beside be, behind me*
* I completely ignore her*

*two more minutes pass*

Her: *yelling behind my back* I’m SORRY!!!

Me: *what? I couldn’t hear you.

Her: I said, I’m sorry!!!

Me: For what??

Her: For everything!

Me: How are you going to make it up to me?

Her: By giving you the best blowjob ever…..
Me: At your place?
Her:Listen, do you seriously want to go to my place… where my family is at?

* I thought about this for a bit.. and figured I could meet in the middle with her*

Me: It’s either that or a hotel.
Her: Ok. Let’s go a hotel NOW.
Me: But only if you pay for it.

ha ha ha… this is was the final straw for her.. I’m not gonna lie. I thought to myself in my head.. “Wow Tim, you’re really pushing it.. did you just seriously command her that?”
It’s like I’m saying, ” Not only are you going to be a slut for me tonight, but you’re also going to pay to be my slut.” ha ha..

That was the final straw for her..she comments back in disbelief:

Her: Wow, you’re a snob!
Me: Yea.. well, you wouldn’t be the first to say that….see ya *walking back to my friend*

There was a guy who was trying to cock block me earlier in the night who was listening the whole time—he quickly swooped in to game her.
But he ended up being someone for her to rant to for atleast thirty minutes.

I heard her in the back saying, ” OMG I can’t believe that guy, he is such a jerk!! “

ha ha… yea. I could have gotten her.. she was definitely sexy after looking at her phone pics. But this story had a better happy ending.

Timmy

(this is the 3rd part of my interactions with an Indonesian girl)

My name is John and before last Friday, I was a 21 y/o virgin….
I’m your typical Asian guy who lived most of his life in a foreign western country, where odds are stacked up against me.
When I was a kid I was probably the most uncool guy EVER: I had the bowl haircut, pants like urkle and the social intelligence of an……asian guy in a foreign country 

I was an introvert, I’d rather listen to my music and not talk to anyone or maybe just my small group of friends, it was so bad that I didn’t even want to come in through the front gate of my school, because everyone saw everyone, and I felt really uncomfortable with just the thought of walking alone and being seen by my fellow students walking in through the front gate.
When I was a teenager I had a good friend who always got the girls, I was always surprised how he got the girls even when he acted like a total ASS, I knew he was good looking but I though hey there has got to be more than that…okay maybe I was also a bit jealous too.
Most of us got into this because there was always ONE (or two) girls who got away or broke your heart…or both.
In my case it was the combination of my then-best friend and crush going out together, I got so pissed off at him that I didn’t speak to him for almost a year (and I used to live next door to this guy), but deep down inside I was more pissed off at myself that I couldn’t get the girl and I knew it was my fault that I couldn’t attract anybody. That is when I decided to better myself, I learned how to become more social, I started working out, doing things I thought was fun like playing guitar, bodyboarding (surfing), dressing better. Basically I worked on my self confidence, but there was still something missing, I still couldn’t get the girls. I’d have lots of friends who where girls… but no girl friends.
About 3-4 years ago I stumbled on the pick up community. Fast forward to September 21st 2009, I decided it was time to be proactive and stop reading about pick up and actually do it. I first came into contact with Tim through mutual friends in Europe,  it didn’t take him long to convince me to sign up for his Online Mentorship Program (through Skype). In the beginning I could not imagine losing my virginity only in two months under Tim’s tutelage….and on through just Skype coaching too!

Here is how it all went down:

We agreed that she’ll come over Saturday night, I didn’t expect her to text message me saying “hmm Can we just switch our Saturday to tonight… I can’t wait till 2morrow  Only if you don’t mind”. I was at the gym when I read it so I sent her txt msg saying “I’m gonna be home around 7, you can come over then”

She came over around 7.30 the moment I opened the door I knew what was on her mind….she wanted SEX!
We sat on the couch and talked for a bit …then she stood up and said “lets go to your bed..I really like your bedsheets, it’s soooo comfy” (Thanks again Tim for your tip about making my room comfy)
She flops on the bed and I lay beside her and in no time we where making out HEAVILY. She tells me to take my shirt off, I told her that she should do it. She starts unbuttoning my shirt and starts kissing me on my chest. I lay her down on the bed and start making out with her again now with me caressing the sides of her breast with my knee between her crotch and I start rubbing her down there. By this time she was getting really worked up, she suddenly pushes me away and told me to take my pants off.. I tell her.. only if you do so, she said…”trust me”. Now I don’t know about you guys but when a girl wants you to take your pants off and says “trust me”….good things are bound to happen 
When I finally got my pants off she starts kissing me from top to …..down there.. All I can say is that she knows how to use her tongue 
When I was almost there I pushed her away and went down on her, at first she tried to push me away so I kissed her everywhere but her sweet spot, she got so worked up that she didn’t even resist when I finally got to her money spot. I got fed up with her panties getting in the way so I told her to take it off.
When I was about to put on the condom, she looked at me and said “what is that?” …..in my head I was like “WTF?!!!”, but I kept it cool and told her “it’s too early to make lil jon’s that’s why I need to use this. So I put it on and was about to enter her when she stopped me and said…”but you can pull out before it happens right?” I was going to explain to her some Biology stuff when I realized that it might just kill the mood…so I took the condom off and start making out with her again and basically make her want it. After about 15 minutes she was really worked up, I thought “now is my chance to put on a new condom”, so I reach out to grab the condom under my bed but to my (unpleasant) surprise it WASN’T THERE! I heard her say “put it in” but I told her “I can’t…not without a condom”, I was about to call it off when she said, ok well put one on, I told her “give me a min…I looked under my bed and voila! there it is…. I slipped it on and I was ready to go …but…I knew I had to get her worked up again.. so back to making out and foreplay, this time it didn’t take long for her to get into it.
I was a bit nervous that I’d fumble so I told her to put it in…
And the rest is history.

Looking back at this, I’m glad that my first time wasn’t with a prostitute or, drunk girl from a club or some ugly and fat chick 
As I write this I know this is only the beginning and that there is more to come and more adventure awaits us nstantattraction practitioners.

Even though my time with Tim was brief; a chat over Skype, and some instant messenging, his advice was spot on and effective for my specific problems. For example, I have never dealt with dating a virgin before, especially one that was reluctant to give it up. I’m not the type of person to go tricking girls into sleeping with me so I was glad that Tim’s advice had none of that. He gave me sound advice that worked. He made it clear the things I needed to do and it was up to me to do them. I followed his advice and I’m glad that it got me the results I wanted . Before I knew it, I wasn’t dating a virgin anymore.

The thing I liked about TIm and his Skype program the most was that he felt like a friend instead of an instructor. I was surprised I felt that way after just one intro Skype call. Our interactions were like two buddies hanging out, I remember we would get side tracked sometimes because of stuff we found out about each other and other random stuff haha.(“WHHAAT, you didnt see that youtube video!?”) I was surprised that my 15 minute intro Skype call turned out to be around 30-40 minutes because of all the awesomeness, no extra charge.(“There is no charge for awesomeness”). Again, our time was limited, but in that short amount of time I was able to get RESULTS. No doubt I would have gotten more results if I would have taken more sessions with Tim.

-Matt skype/phone coaching student

I understand not everyone can afford my workshops, thats why I have Phone Coaching. “The Private Instruction” over the phone.   It’s a program specifically designed to give you the same results, but with a cheaper costs-

In my phone coaching I’m offering Two of my hit programs which I teach on my Live Private Instructions:

Getting Laid without getting In Trouble(with your wallet)

• How to build sexual tension in the bedroom
• Learn the secret to increasing your chances of getting laid by atleast 70%!
• Step by step secrets on getting a girl into your bedroom without the hassle of going on “dates”

Of course, my Phone Coaching wouldn’t be the same if I didn’t offer anything on my specialty:

“How to be the life of the Party” program

• Learn how to approach anyone– Anytime, Anywhere-
• Learn how to Attract anyone into your world within a minute or less
• Learn how to be Attractive in the eyes of others without saying a word
• Learn how to “dominate” bars, clubs and lounges

Because  this is the Official Launch of my Live Programs converted into Phone Coaching, until my next Post, I’m going to give 30 Minutes of FREE phone Consultation for anyone who adds me onto Skype! My Skype ID is: TimmySwagger

I arrive in Dallas on Friday.

Tim picks me up at my hotel.  - the first thing Tim did was fix me mentally, destroyed all my limiting beliefs– then he taught me techniques, “How to hook people in within the first 15 seconds and keep it going till the end of time.” After Friday’s seminar Tim decides I should buy new clothes.

“ Before we can truly reap the rewards of life, we have to be congruent with how we act and talk.”–TimmySwagger

Friday night was all about Micro: conversing with people (learning how to “hook them in” with-out“lifestyle perks” such as

bottle service, new clothes  and such)

We start the night off at a bar, we walked in and Tim already finds 2 girls sitting at a table.  He tells me to open them and hints me which “hook-line” technique to use, after a bit I walk over to them.  As I sit down the girl next to me says, “Ok let’s hear it.”( As if she was expecting me to walk over and hit on her)  Ha ha–I was surprised how receptive she was, so I smile and open her and her friend.  We talk, Tim joins  and the conversation makes a nice warm up and we leave after Tim number closes one of the girls.

I was so surprised it worked so well her that I stalled out after the opener– because of this, her friend pulls her away.

Tim was dancing with hotties all night, I was getting used to getting my groove on and I realised that dancing in front of strangers wasn’t so bad. I actually prefer dancing sometimes over conversing now…it’s like an easy way to skip the retarded shoulder kino and go straight for the ass grabbing without getting slapped

“If you want to improve your life, surround yourself with superstars, by default– the characteristics that made them successful will rub-off on you.“